"Erin. I want to know who you are here and now. Your past is yours, and if you really do want to share it, you can. But you don't owe it to me just because I'm here. I mean, if you start going back to old ways, we're gonna have an issue, but it is deeply core to my personal beliefs, outside anything I am by blood or duty that people can change. For me to judge the you in front of me by whatever you've got to say about past yous would be another violation of who I am that this ship has wrung outta me."

Because it's already gotten him breaking his personal rules in other ways: Don't raise zombies. Don't get angry. Don't pick the path of violence first.

"But beyond me, again, I think coming to people to tell them how you've fucked up when you barely met them...that's, like." A pause, as he sort of grapples for words a moment, before going back to his original comment. "A dick move."