"Then it's not on you to run triage for the world, and especially not at the cost of your own needs. It's one thing when we're in an emergency, I'll hear out that you didn't get your broken foot seen to because someone else has a stab wound, but..." That sigh again. "Not every time is go time, little bird. I been telling people this, maybe you'll be the first one to hear it and listen: if you want a peaceful life you gotta learn to live one, like, actively. It's a skill as much as survival or swordsmanship or swimming. When d'ya think you wanna get started on that? 'cause...I'm trying to learn it now."